The seeds were sown in 1967, when my family re-emigrated by sea back to Holland from New Zealand. It took six weeks. It was a fascinating experience. In 1975, I joined CNCo as a Navigating Officer Cadet straight from high school onto my first ship. After four years at sea, I did my shore-based training and sat my examinations that allowed me to move up in the ranks. While I was in the New Zealand Nautical School, I managed to get my name on the honours board for my Master's licence, and a few years ago, I also did a management course through the Nautical Institute. Over all those years, I ended up as Senior Master, eventually earning the title Commodore.
I go away for four months, and then have two months and ten days off. My wife and I spend a lot of our time off in Europe tracing our roots (I am Dutch and my wife is from Cyprus). We enjoy the history and culture there. But we can't get away from the sea. Even if we stay somewhere in France or Italy, it's got to have a sea view!
My wife is currently on board with me. In the early days, when it wasn't uncommon to be at sea for eight months, it was quite normal to have families on the ship. My son travelled with me twice. But when I was apart from my family, it was very difficult. In the 1970s and 80s, we only had letters and the occasional telephone call. By the time we got to know there was a problem at home, it was too late for us to do anything. Emails and the internet have made things easier, but there is still the physical separation to deal with.
A lot of young people who come to sea now are "wedded" to their phones and this stops them from appreciating the countries they go to and the people they meet. I would like to encourage them to adopt an open mind, grab every opportunity to go ashore and meet people and talk to them. That mind-set will also help people overcome feelings of isolation and being far from home.